RESPECT GIRLS
In this precarious world no one is unaware of the condition of girls, the best creation of god, the almighty. In every stage of life they became harassed, tortured and humiliated by others. Their journey from fetus to death is as crucial as hardly anyone can imagine. How painful their life is! Comments... comments... and only comments are the part of their life. Its like, as others have forgotten the importance of a girl child or a woman. They even forget that without the help of the woman no offspring could be produced.
Her life covers 4 phases in a very dramatic way. The phases are childhood days, maturity age (adult age), post marriage and the last innings (till death). Every stage seems like a great battle. Though she is the beautiful creation of god but others don’t feel so. We always use the common proverbs that, nobody can understand a woman but do we really try to understand her?
Childhood:
Childhood days are always the favorite of all people as these are the days when we don’t have anything to do except play and of course little study. This is the scene of the childhood of boys not in girls. They need to be very careful about everything. They can’t make deviation from the regular routine that has been made for them by the parents. When the boy child is always encouraged to go for school and being offered all types of freedom but that’s not the scene in case of a girl. The girl child is sentenced to be alone not supported for education as others feel that they are born only to get married and to take care of a family. Even very good marks in the annual exam were not adequate to impress their parents. Higher education is always something like dream for girls. Some are even can’t even dare to dream due to many obstacles. Our society is well known that there is no such outstanding and remarkable thing in boys so that we should support them and not girls.
This should be changed………
Maturity Age (Adolescent Age):
We are well known with the proverb that,” After every sad days, comes the glad day”. But it has no significance in a girl’s life. There is no end of sorrows as she gets younger and adult. The slangs and comments from street boys became her daily routine. If denied to any boy any kind of relationship then the fear of being harassed by the unexpected actions of the boys. She has to follow many rules very strictly. She has no permission to be a friend of a boy and can be considered as bad conduct girl due if she does so. She is always treated as a burden on family. So after a little study she will be treated as a show piece and if denied to marry earlier then will have to answer many unexpected questions though the reason is not the suspected one but the higher study and an ambition to become self dependent. Fools fall in love and if she will be a fool enough to fall in love then also a fear of being cheated or betrayed by boys.
We have to change the rules………..
Post marriage:
Marriage is a relation made in heaven. Her marriage leads her to a new stage of life full of responsibilities and expectations. If god is much convinced by her prayer then she may get a good and caring husband but all wishes doesn’t come true and all things doesn’t come in a single packet. So being wife of a good man there is no escape fro being tortured and harassed by parents-in-laws. Working lady doesn’t have to face these types of tortures as she would be earning some money but that’s not the matter. A working lady has to answer many questions and only sadness will be the ultimate conclusion. When she is pregnant her family members will treat her as queen with so much care as she is the only channel to the continuity of their family. But the days are not always green. If she gave birth to a boy child then the care and love will continue but if it is a girl child then her world of happiness collapses like a high storey building in earthquake and rest of her life will be spent in hell.
What an injustice………..
Last innings (till death):
For whole life she has dedicated to her family. She maintained all the responsibilities with all success but in her last time no one will care her and she will be treated as a burden that disturbs others, who are the modern age people but really they are her own children. Lastly she is sentenced to be alone and alone forever in the old age home.
……..After struggling few days with the lonely life she dies with a melancholic heart.
So if sometime u see any girl/lady/woman/old lady in sad mood then make her feel as the most beautiful woman in the world and please convey my message that, “She is the best & most beautiful creation of god........”
Indeed she is………
Cheers Readers
Shakti Satapathy
Her life covers 4 phases in a very dramatic way. The phases are childhood days, maturity age (adult age), post marriage and the last innings (till death). Every stage seems like a great battle. Though she is the beautiful creation of god but others don’t feel so. We always use the common proverbs that, nobody can understand a woman but do we really try to understand her?
Childhood:
Childhood days are always the favorite of all people as these are the days when we don’t have anything to do except play and of course little study. This is the scene of the childhood of boys not in girls. They need to be very careful about everything. They can’t make deviation from the regular routine that has been made for them by the parents. When the boy child is always encouraged to go for school and being offered all types of freedom but that’s not the scene in case of a girl. The girl child is sentenced to be alone not supported for education as others feel that they are born only to get married and to take care of a family. Even very good marks in the annual exam were not adequate to impress their parents. Higher education is always something like dream for girls. Some are even can’t even dare to dream due to many obstacles. Our society is well known that there is no such outstanding and remarkable thing in boys so that we should support them and not girls.
This should be changed………
Maturity Age (Adolescent Age):
We are well known with the proverb that,” After every sad days, comes the glad day”. But it has no significance in a girl’s life. There is no end of sorrows as she gets younger and adult. The slangs and comments from street boys became her daily routine. If denied to any boy any kind of relationship then the fear of being harassed by the unexpected actions of the boys. She has to follow many rules very strictly. She has no permission to be a friend of a boy and can be considered as bad conduct girl due if she does so. She is always treated as a burden on family. So after a little study she will be treated as a show piece and if denied to marry earlier then will have to answer many unexpected questions though the reason is not the suspected one but the higher study and an ambition to become self dependent. Fools fall in love and if she will be a fool enough to fall in love then also a fear of being cheated or betrayed by boys.
We have to change the rules………..
Post marriage:
Marriage is a relation made in heaven. Her marriage leads her to a new stage of life full of responsibilities and expectations. If god is much convinced by her prayer then she may get a good and caring husband but all wishes doesn’t come true and all things doesn’t come in a single packet. So being wife of a good man there is no escape fro being tortured and harassed by parents-in-laws. Working lady doesn’t have to face these types of tortures as she would be earning some money but that’s not the matter. A working lady has to answer many questions and only sadness will be the ultimate conclusion. When she is pregnant her family members will treat her as queen with so much care as she is the only channel to the continuity of their family. But the days are not always green. If she gave birth to a boy child then the care and love will continue but if it is a girl child then her world of happiness collapses like a high storey building in earthquake and rest of her life will be spent in hell.
What an injustice………..
Last innings (till death):
For whole life she has dedicated to her family. She maintained all the responsibilities with all success but in her last time no one will care her and she will be treated as a burden that disturbs others, who are the modern age people but really they are her own children. Lastly she is sentenced to be alone and alone forever in the old age home.
……..After struggling few days with the lonely life she dies with a melancholic heart.
So if sometime u see any girl/lady/woman/old lady in sad mood then make her feel as the most beautiful woman in the world and please convey my message that, “She is the best & most beautiful creation of god........”
Indeed she is………
Cheers Readers
Shakti Satapathy
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