Tuesday, July 13, 2010

A Beautiful Dream

In the story of every great people one thing is always common, i.e. Pain, Injustice and great success. But it’s not necessary that these three should always come in a combination form. So like that in every great thing these are the common factors that makes the story indeed great. And sometimes the story may be a happier or a sad one. Every problem has a solution and that can be known if we go through the problem but not around the problem.


Every great thing comes with great difficulties but can be handled with patience. “Every thing is fare in love and war”, this golden quotation was told by an anonymous person but it is as famous as tajmahal and World War I, II. Everybody knows it but he applied it. He is Mahesh, a tall, smart, sagacious and a good looking guy. It’s not the story about him but of them, he and his love Preet. They are the young generations full of happiness and they have every kind of things that is much necessary to be good human as like they have asked god to make an assemble while creating them. Great people have great style and great things always associated with great struggle. In love the golden rule is,”If you want to get your lover as your life partner you have to convince god before your parents”. Because if god will not feel that you both are made for each other then, you may not succeed in your love goal.

In the scenario of Indian love stories, every thing can’t be alright. There must be any hurdle. Generally we feel that if the boy loves a girl and the girl is in love too, then there won’t be any problem. But in Indian screen the boy’s family should like the girl and vice versa and in addition that both the family should like each other. And believe me friends, all these criteria can’t be fulfilled in any case, there will be definitely any kind of problem. So how could their story be a deviation from this?


……the boy unabled to convince her father and now comes the day of her marriage. He arrived there to convey the message to her father that he had never done before.


The conversation between father of the bride and the boy:

Girl’s father: Do you know what is going on in my courtyard? It’s my daughter’s marriage ceremony.

Boy: I know Sir.

Girl’s Father: Why are you here? Isn’t it to elope with my daughter, Preet? Tell me. Is it not to elope with her? I was right, u r a stupid boy who doesn’t care other’s feelings.

Boy: It’ll not take much time to elope Sir. I too wish it to happen. I don’t want to leave her in some other’s hand. When I fell in love with your daughter, I was ready for all type of action because I always believe that I have got this as god’s gift and who knows what I will be in next birth or whether such thing really exist or not? So why should I leave my love for anybody else as I also deserve to be happy. But I was wrong sir, I was completely wrong.

When I saw you feeling sad following your thought of daughter’s elopement, it made me laugh. But when I saw how much it affects a father by seeing you, it really scared me.

…… I was never like this Sir. I was very happy even in my small shed. But I didn’t know with whom to share my sorrows. I didn’t know who could understand me.

Then I gave an idea, I found that Preet is the correct person to understand me. Then I fell in love with her. Later I came to know she is going to marry next month. She tried to convince her family but couldn’t make it. I was again in trouble. I gave a good thought and decided that you’re the best man to understand myself.
I thought only you can understand my pain. So I came here to share my sorrows with you, sir and certainly neither to elope with your daughter nor to disturb the marriage ceremony.

I get worried without seeing Preet for few minutes. I thought I can’t live without her. What will happen to me after she gets married to any other person? But when I understood how much you will be worried about your daughter if she will be eloped with me. I know the pain so I can’t do it.

Well, I don’t know what course my life will take here after. But I know at least you will be happy and so also Preet. Do you know what is going on in your courtyard? Its marriage of the girl I love.

Sir, you want to save your daughter’s marriage without any problem. I am tensed how it will be over peacefully.

After you only I love your daughter that much.
It was the story of the ordinary love birds but having some extraordinary story to tell. Well they have one thing in mind that god has kept something better for them and they should not argue with the almighty as he is not their enemy but well wisher.


Cheers Readers
Shakti Satapathy
RESPECT GIRLS
In this precarious world no one is unaware of the condition of girls, the best creation of god, the almighty. In every stage of life they became harassed, tortured and humiliated by others. Their journey from fetus to death is as crucial as hardly anyone can imagine. How painful their life is! Comments... comments... and only comments are the part of their life. Its like, as others have forgotten the importance of a girl child or a woman. They even forget that without the help of the woman no offspring could be produced.

Her life covers 4 phases in a very dramatic way. The phases are childhood days, maturity age (adult age), post marriage and the last innings (till death). Every stage seems like a great battle. Though she is the beautiful creation of god but others don’t feel so. We always use the common proverbs that, nobody can understand a woman but do we really try to understand her?

Childhood:
Childhood days are always the favorite of all people as these are the days when we don’t have anything to do except play and of course little study. This is the scene of the childhood of boys not in girls. They need to be very careful about everything. They can’t make deviation from the regular routine that has been made for them by the parents. When the boy child is always encouraged to go for school and being offered all types of freedom but that’s not the scene in case of a girl. The girl child is sentenced to be alone not supported for education as others feel that they are born only to get married and to take care of a family. Even very good marks in the annual exam were not adequate to impress their parents. Higher education is always something like dream for girls. Some are even can’t even dare to dream due to many obstacles. Our society is well known that there is no such outstanding and remarkable thing in boys so that we should support them and not girls.
This should be changed………



Maturity Age (Adolescent Age):
We are well known with the proverb that,” After every sad days, comes the glad day”. But it has no significance in a girl’s life. There is no end of sorrows as she gets younger and adult. The slangs and comments from street boys became her daily routine. If denied to any boy any kind of relationship then the fear of being harassed by the unexpected actions of the boys. She has to follow many rules very strictly. She has no permission to be a friend of a boy and can be considered as bad conduct girl due if she does so. She is always treated as a burden on family. So after a little study she will be treated as a show piece and if denied to marry earlier then will have to answer many unexpected questions though the reason is not the suspected one but the higher study and an ambition to become self dependent. Fools fall in love and if she will be a fool enough to fall in love then also a fear of being cheated or betrayed by boys.
We have to change the rules………..

Post marriage:
Marriage is a relation made in heaven. Her marriage leads her to a new stage of life full of responsibilities and expectations. If god is much convinced by her prayer then she may get a good and caring husband but all wishes doesn’t come true and all things doesn’t come in a single packet. So being wife of a good man there is no escape fro being tortured and harassed by parents-in-laws. Working lady doesn’t have to face these types of tortures as she would be earning some money but that’s not the matter. A working lady has to answer many questions and only sadness will be the ultimate conclusion. When she is pregnant her family members will treat her as queen with so much care as she is the only channel to the continuity of their family. But the days are not always green. If she gave birth to a boy child then the care and love will continue but if it is a girl child then her world of happiness collapses like a high storey building in earthquake and rest of her life will be spent in hell.
What an injustice………..



Last innings (till death):
For whole life she has dedicated to her family. She maintained all the responsibilities with all success but in her last time no one will care her and she will be treated as a burden that disturbs others, who are the modern age people but really they are her own children. Lastly she is sentenced to be alone and alone forever in the old age home.

……..After struggling few days with the lonely life she dies with a melancholic heart.


So if sometime u see any girl/lady/woman/old lady in sad mood then make her feel as the most beautiful woman in the world and please convey my message that, “She is the best & most beautiful creation of god........”
Indeed she is………



Cheers Readers
Shakti Satapathy

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

A World Which Can Speak ........

Why we dont have dreams.....why we dont follow them if they are with us......